Playing ‘Shadow of the Colossus’ opened within me a shame that fictional violence had never provoked before — The first time I thought of video game designer Fumito Ueda, I didn’t know his name. I was transitioning to that nebulous space between childhood and adulthood, where you’re both yet neither, where your body’s flooded with hormones and you can’t help but habitually avoid mirrors. Watching the commercials bisecting…